Gentlemen – Make Sure Whatever You Do You Do It For Love With 100% Effort

Oct 29, 2023

The following quote is from David Deida author of Way of The Superior Man;

“The way a man penetrates the world should be the same way he penetrates his woman: not merely for personal gain or pleasure, but to magnify love, openness, and depth.”

The way it’s supposed to be – if a man has depth, heart, self respect and confidence, – is that his reason for doing anything has to do with finding their deepest truth, exercising their free will and giving and expressing their gifts. In other words, to do it with love.

Yet, many men settle for enjoying a little bit of freedom while incompletely giving their gifts.

For example;

A man may have the freedom to buy a nice car, to have good sex regularly, and to sleep late on Sunday.

A man might generously donate some cash to a good cause, they might buy their woman a lovely piece of jewelry, or coach little league.

These are nice. Many men engage in them. They help people and the community. However, for many men, it’s still not enough.

The next time you embrace your woman sexually, feel your ultimate desire.

Ask yourself, what are your deepest desires in life?

Do your best to feel why you are doing anything at all in life. Specifically, why you’re uniting with your lady?

There may be lesser reasons, but what is your deepest, ultimate reason?

Without this understanding, you as a man, may not feel like you have freedom or true love or that you’ve achieved anything in life.

You as a man, have a lot to offer those around you, your community and the world at large.

So, it’s vital that you make the internal shift to a realization that the way you’ve offered your gifts has often left you with a sense of incompleteness rather than accomplishment.

If the words in this article are resonating with you then something is still lacking.

You have a desire to go beyond, to un-trap yourself, to free yourself to enjoy life unrestrained, without a sense of loneliness or internal tension, and fear.

Sadly for many men, there is a nagging sense that their best gifts remain un-given to the fullest extent.

Their life feels kind of phony at its core and rather passionless even within their sex life.

Make Her Blossom

When a man gives his true gift of sex to his woman, he penetrates and blooms her beyond all limits into love.

It is the same with the world.

To do this takes authenticity, persistence, and courage of heart.

A man must know the truth at his core and be willing to give his gifts fully. No holding back.

As a man, you must be willing to dedicate yourself and your life to magnifying goodness, love and positivity by penetrating the world (and the women in it) with your true gifts.

This willingness is rare.

I would say most men are willing to go only so far.

Which means they have an impact in a mediocre way.

They’ll share a few orgasms and a few emotional moments of bonding before going over the next day’s schedule.

This includes how men impact the world too.

Too many men are willing to poke the world in a mediocre way; making a few bucks and contributing in a way that makes them feel like their life isn’t a total waste.

But very few men are willing to use everything they’ve got to liberate the world and their woman into the deepest possible truth, love, and openness.

Few men are fooled by the mediocrity though.

Deep down most men know they and the other men around them are just messing around. Coasting through their lives.

Now… if you really want to make an impact, there are 2 ways to do it;

One way is to renounce sexual relations and things of the world and totally dedicate yourself without distraction or compromise to the path you’ve chosen.
The other way is to “fuck” both the world and women to smithereens and to do it with love.

Give your true gifts despite the constant hassles from women and the world. Thrust yourself fully in the fray of life and do it with love. Yes, it will be a cornucopia of pleasure and pain, attraction and repulsion, gain and loss. Do it anyway and do it with love.

Leave no gift left un-given.

What is the alternative? To sheepishly penetrate the world and gratify your own needs?

No wonder women feel such a lack of passion, dedication, depth, and truth from men today. This is how most men move through their lives. Half-baked.

You can blame feminism, but why would a woman yield to a man with love.

Without your commitment to truly give of yourself in strength and authority a woman has two choices;

Leave you alone

OR

Distract you, suck your life energy, draw you into endless complications, and drain your resources

So, unless you actually want to feel trapped and alone, you as a man must decide to give your true gifts to the world. Do so while holding nothing back and caring not for distain or disagreement from others.

Through thick and thin, this is the way of the superior man and do it for love.